Just that really, I've tried ignoring it, knowing the menapause and all that. Expect I have no other symptoms, no hot flashes, no mood swings, just an absolute non feeling for sex. No desire for my OH even though he is gorgeous, no kids around ,they are late teens, on there way out. I just feel nothing, and I hate it. I have always loved sex, intamacy, feeling desirable but now this last year it leaves me cold. Not even turned on when we have sex, just go through the motions to keep normal. Am I the only one? What on earth has happened to me? I'm so sad about it.