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Sick of DH doing this

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RedAndYellowTulips · 28/06/2020 17:21

About 6 months ago, DH, who has always done 'jokes' that only he thinks are funny, started to have a comical (in his opinion) obsession with my breasts.

Each time he walked up to me he'd keep grabbing my boobs, and it escalated to him grabbing them constantly and shouting 'boobies' in the way that the Cookie Monster says 'cookies'. I know this sounds ridiculous but it's the best way to describe it. He also does other stuff involving my breasts too, which I'm not going to describe as it's a total cliche thing that men do but he keeps doing it and I hate it.

If I wear anything that is remotely revealing he keeps saying 'boobies'. The other day I put on a bikini and sat in the garden and he came and sat in the garden too and kept saying 'boobies' and trying to grab them. In the end I went in and got changed as I just couldn't take it anymore.

It's starting to make me feel really dirty. I have in the past been sexually abused by a boyfriend in my early teens and it's making me feel so dirty because of that, I think. I've told DH time and time again that I hate it and not to do it but he says it's just a joke and that I've got no sense of humour.

I'm only a 32C BTW, not that it would make a difference to it being wrong if I had massive boobs but it's not like they're huge and in his fucking face all the time.

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BayandBlonde · 29/06/2020 07:21

I had an ex that used to do this, and grab my crotch too whilst making groaning noises. It just became unbearable to the point where I would just avoid being anywhere near him. I now hate being touched (and choose to be single because of this)

It took all my will not to punch the fucker in the face!

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hellsbellsmelons · 29/06/2020 08:05

This is giving me the 'ick'
He would be binned off fast.
I am NOT tactile.
When I was OLD, I made it clear in my profile that if they were tactile they needed to swipe left!
I have small and very sensitive breasts.
If someone did this to me, my auto response would be to lash out.

Don't put up with this OP.
Imagine if you have DC and breastfeed.
It's actually making me feel quick sick thinking about it.

Take back your life.
Stop letting this fucking manchild sexually assault you.

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