My husband of 16 years went to Qatar to work as a doctor last year in March. Since then I visited him twice and he visited us twice. In August we went there I wanted us to stay and he kept my eldest son there and told me to go back with younger kids and come back in December otherwise he will divorce me as I am disobedient wife. He told this to our kids as well and also threatened them that he will stop sending any money. So, my r eldest son decided to stay there so we don’t get divorce, he has lost his place in the free Grammar school as well. I brought him back in December for holidays and he didn’t want to go back. Last Monday I received a text from him saying I have got married to my second wife, thankfully, Now I have someone to look after me in Qatar. I video called him and he told me that I have got married with a philpino lady who is a teacher and she is 46 years old. My husband is 45 years old. I couldn’t hear any more. When on Friday I rang him and told him off and asked if he is not ashamed of it and he laughed and said no, I haven’t done anything wrong. I also texted him and he blames me for it, He texted me that I can’t understand why are you not happy for me and called me selfish. I am going through Betrayal trauma Symptoms. We have three kids, aged 14, 12 and 9. What is the best course of action for me? I am confused. What are my options? What course of action shall I take?
Please, no hard words as going through enough stress.