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Husband dragged me, is that acceptable?

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opmamatrist · 18/06/2020 23:26

So my brother in law is due to get married in August (which likely will be delayed due to pandemic), I personally have outfits for the wedding and won't be buying anything however my mother in law would like to travel to Manchester to shop for wedding outfits. I have a one year old baby who I breastfeed and so I haven't really travelled very far since having him due to not feeling comfy feeding him in public. So I've said I don't want to go and my husband went ballistic, accused me of always causing problems when it comes to doing things with his family. I got fed up of arguing and went into bed and he dragged me out and chucked me on the floor to carry on talking. I don't think it's appropriate to travel unnecessarily during the pandemic and do not want to put my baby at risk hence I said no, is that so unreasonable? Should I be going out like normal? I haven't been to a shop since February!

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 20/06/2020 06:32

He will do it, or worse, again
Please come back when you need to

Pavlova31 · 20/06/2020 07:12

It WILL happen again.And again ...
One piece of advice ...LEAVE.

ChaToilLeam · 20/06/2020 07:18

He hasn’t hit you YET. This man is a bully and his behaviour will escalate. You have a way out, please take it for the sake of you and your child.

viques · 22/06/2020 11:51

rest assured if anything happened

I think the statistic is between 30 and 40 violent attacks before most women leave. Or die.

There are a lot of very vunerable women out there who believe the lies/are too scared to leave

Apileofballyhoo · 22/06/2020 12:24

Just sending you love, OP.

Here's a book pdf you might find helpful.

www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that-pdf

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