There must be a hundred posts on MN from women who don’t say anything to their partner because he will go in a bad mood, throw a strop, give them the silent treatment for days or even weeks.
That’s how men ‘train‘ women to be like Stepford Wives. If they do something ‘wrong’ he reacts in a bad way. So they try harder the next time not to do that thing again. To be who he wants them to be, to not raise issues, to be not themselves. To only want the same things from life that he wants. Which generally ends up being a great housewife and working mother/willing sex partner whenever he wants it, while he does very little of the drudge work at home and thinks it’s fine to shout at them or lose his temper at them when he’s had a bad day. Even you are starting on that path by not arguing with him, do you see?
He just wants you to be who he wants you to be. A quiet woman who is subservient and does what suits him when it suits him, without having to be told. Who puts up with other women and god knows what all.
He’s just using you, probably for sex or something else you have that he wants. He doesn’t love you. He will never love you. He doesn’t respect you. He will never respect you.
Don’t become one if the women on here who have loved men like that because he will ruin your life. They will tell you that if you read their posts. Their lives become his to control. They are good people who have been manipulated in the guise of ‘love’ into less than they should be. Love should make you more not less of a person.
Don’t be the next. Dump. Block. Move on. You deserve better.