He wanted to have sex "as a woman". WTF??

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My ex husband came out as a cross dresser at the end of our marriage. One thing I still cannot get out of my head is when he confessed to "wanting to experience sex as a woman". He said he was 100% not gay and did not like the thought of sex with men.
He never spoke about it again and our marriage ended without this conversation ever coming up again. We now don't speak.

Does anyone understand this?

@tanstaafl @Bleepbloopblarp
Welcome to 2020 cisgender means someone's identity and gender is the same as their birth sex. I meant as in, I don't have any transgender/transvestite tendencies. So yeah, "normal" woman but it's not PC to refer to it like that nowadays
The things you learn

Cis is bullshit. I'm not a subset of my own sex.
I have every sympathy for people who suffer from gender dysphoria but absolutely none for these AGP assholes that parody being a woman.

I personally don't believe in gender as a concept anyway, its unprovable, unscientific bullshit.

"Sex as a woman"? So that'd be after he'd done the childcare, a load of laundry, a smidgeon of ironing, sorted dinner and got the packed lunches ready, all after a full day's work?

This is offensive. Housework is not an inherent part of being a woman.

It’s ok ladies. You can tell your husbands that they can get pregnant, give birth and breast feed, you just didn’t think to ask.

Women also don't have to have children.

I've noticed the same women who whinge that their husband "expects" them to do the housework or take care of children also bring us all down by suggesting that is all we are here for.

Look, it’s like having sex with a pantomime dame. Your partner then looks like they fell into Miss Selfridge in 1987.

Men who have these needs are just fetishising their view of women as pathetic, helplessly sexually driven beings. That’s actually their problem, not yours. They spend their time obsessing over their appearance but you see, you don’t matter, as you are not a “proper woman”. if you are heterosexual it’s devastating to your sex life. If you are gay, it’s even worse; you can be presented with a man dressed like Bet Lynch who claims to be a lesbian.

Well said Lex.