I separated from my husband/ex about 9 months ago we had been together most of our lives to this point summer last year, it was devastating I went through so much had counselling solo for 9 months before and after the separation. Anyway 3 months after the separation I met accidentally an old flame someone I dated a few times we really hit it off I went with the flow it was soon wasnt even expecting anything but weve really fallen for each other. Fast forward 6 months and for practical reasons too long to explain we are under the same roof and there have been a few issues that I'm not sure how to deal with he has already done a lot to compromise on a couple of things but still difficult his daughter adorable but extremely difficult very demanding but just a kid but expecting to sleep in bed with us etc I point blank refused and said no way my kids dont sleep with me they are teens but I believe kids should self soothe unless unwell etc. his daughter 11, so hes put a stop to it so I'm glad about that. And Please say if you think I'm being unreasonable but he has severe snoring issues to the point where if I sleep downstairs I can still hear him he has gone to sleep clinic but were waiting obviously at present its going to take longer in the meantime I miss my own bed i cant wake him to kick him out hes a sleepy head big time, I appreciate he gets up early and works hard long hours etc but as soon as hes in hes on the sofa watching TV. On his days off hes falling asleep all the time hes binge eating total junk food and soft drinks soft drinks he goes through large bottles on a daily basis hes overweight too he doesnt eat all day at work so binge eats tons of crap at once it's like if wehave desert he cant have a slice of cake he will eat the whole cake or what's left of it . I have tried to encourage him I'm very healthy and work out regularly very active I work full time but then still have the kids and a million other things to do in the house I appreciate that the snoring may be causing issues but its all a vicious cycle its depressing me because apart from this hes amazing guy I love to bits but I don't get the constant lays on sofa all day in and out of consciousness I think its lack of quality sleep due to the horrendous volume of snoring but is the junk food causing it. I think hes totally addicted to junk food too I explained if he ate better hed have more energy he thinks people are different and he likes to laze all day where I dont fair enough but to me it seems a shame wasting your days off falling asleep and binging, is it me do I not get it or what? Thanks in advance.