I wondered if I could have some advice. I've never been in this situation before.
I started a new job recently, it's well paid (for me) and I tried very hard to get it. Was pleased when I was offered it.
I started with three other new people. One of the guys I sort of noticed, he was generally friendly with me. I thought nothing of it.
We went on a training course and while we had some free time we ended up getting chatting. Turns out we have a great deal in common, especially music which is my thing. He what's app'd me a playlist he'd made. Didn't think much of it, thought I'd made a new friend which I was happy about.
One Friday afternoon we had a long chat about all sorts. I saw him talking to another colleague and as soon as I entered the room he cut the chat short and walked straight to my desk. That night he what's apped me and talked about weekend plans. Nothing weird.
A lot has happened in one week and we ended up flirting which has moved on to full on sexting. Including images......
I like him, and I tried to pull back but I wasn't strong enough. I genuinely think it will be ok at work as long as I'm professional and mature but I still worry about my job
I've looked up some policies and it looks like it's ok to have a work relationship as long as it doesn't disrupt work.
Equally I'm worried he just sees me as a shag
Does anyone have any thoughts on what I should do? Thank you