I have no idea what is going on in the dating world now. I had a nosy to see what the competition is like on dating sites and am finding that obese women put themselves as average body type and I am quite slim but would say I am average body type so if a man was to do a search he might exclude 'average' body type in his search. Other women try to make out they have the perfect lives by travelling, going to festivals with their friends, body dysmorphia and snapchat filters on their pictures. I have deleted my dating profile because I feel that online daters are extremely shallow with the grass is greener syndrome. I would say I am slim but not athletic but have a pretty face.
My question is do men prefer a woman who is very toned with a not so nice face or would they prefer a woman with an average body and pretty face?
I know looks are not everything and I am a kind person with a good heart but I feel pressured by looks. This shallow world is knocking my confidence. In real life I have lots of men who are interested in me but they lack confidence in asking me out.