He has disappeared

[Sosounhappy]

Been seeing somebody since May. Seeing him twice a week. Last saw him on Thursday. Said catch up soon no arguments. Normally messages everyday. No contact since Thursday and ignored my messages yesterday. What would you do?

My ex husband had an affair wish I had known

My ex husband had an affair wish I had known

Honestly, it absolutely isn’t worth getting involved.

And I think probably part of your motives are from anger too.

Block, recover, move on. Don’t give him any more headspace.

So you had your suspicions before he dumped you, now you feel his wife should know? If he hadn’t ghosted you, would you be feeling so virtuous??

Yet you didn't feel the need to tell his wife when he was seeing you?

True, right time to think straight

So the wife NEEDS to know now that he's scarpered. Run along with yourself and don't be so willing to fall for some old fools lines next time.

It does seem a little suspicious for sure! If you have never met his family or friends .Maybe hes married (seems likely TBH) or otherwise in long term relationship .Obviously you will feel upset but I think this kind of thing happens a lot .

Of you want revenge? Because he's ghosted you?

Also twice a week seems a sort of pattern almost ,if hes married can get away with telling wife 2 nights work /hobby whatever Sorry OP xx

I think if he hasn't messaged you for a few days, he might be pulling away. However, he could also be going through other issues you're unaware of.

Perhaps his wife found out.

What made you so passive that you didn't act on the thought he might be married?

Not really sure why not talking to you for less than three days is ghosting lol. Over a week yeah maybe...but three days no.

But I mean if you suspect he is married, that's a bigger problem. Maybe his wife found out about you..

He is back. Lost his phone !!!

He is back. Lost his phone

Which doesn’t settle your concerns he was married....

Conveniently timed...

And is he married? Have you asked him

I asked him if we could meet over his way this week awaiting a response

Let's all take bets on that response!
Could be a kerb ball, he might actually say yes...and then cancel/rearrange at the last moment!

Hmm we will see

Also suggested a weekend away

He couldn't have emailed you?

He lost his phone for 3 days, does he have any other way to contact you? It does sound a bit suss. Where was the phone?

(Cant resist pinkbobob you know it's curve ball, right?)

Still very odd

So you're not going to tell his wife any more ?

Going to find out if he is married one way or another!