I've just started to see someone who was all over me on the second date, I told him to back off and he did. He has a BFF who hasn't been well and texts a lot for support. He's sent a picture of me and she said I look 'homely' and on date 4 this week she was constantly texting asking where he was/what he was doing. I think that's out of order and disrespectful. Am I being unreasonable in thinking she should leave him alone when we are together and that he ought to tell her he's out and will reply later!