I bit the tip of his tongue off

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Ongoing issues in our relationship with him promising to take time off and help with the kids then going to work anyway. Ignoring me and talking on his phone. Financial abuse which I’ve realised has been going on throughout our relationship. Today the kids have gone for a sleep after late nights. I was looking forward to having a hour by myself. But instead he gets into bed next me and starts touching me. I say I’m not interested. He carries on and climbs on top of me and puts his tongue in my mouth. I’ve completely seen red and bit the end off his tongue. He ran away crying and whimpering. I should feel bad but I’m just fucking full of rage for my shitty life. Should I leave? I know if he calls the police I’m fucked. Can’t stop shaking

Is it him you're scared of outside the room you're hiding in or is it having to explain what you did?
Has he forced himself on raped you before?

Oh what an awful situation.

You need to phone the police i think. You've just experienced attempted rape, you acted in self defence and are now unsure what he might do. I really think this is a matter for the police.
I'm sorry you are going through this

I'd get this documented pronto with your side of the story. It doesn't sound though that you are prepared to do this.

Are you planning on staying with this guy?

I think you should phone the police otherwise this may escalate

Where is he now?

Hi op this sounds like an awful situation to be in, I’m so sorry it’s happening. You need to take some action right now to keep your kids and yourself safe. Get your phone and ring 999 and say you want to report that you have been sexually assaulted by your partner and your children are in their rooms asleep. They will help you get everything safe and sorted out.

Where is he now?

The police are the right call.

I know this is really, really hard, but you need to call the police.

Any family nearby who might take the children for an hour or so?

Please report him for rape.
I was raped 34 years ago at the age of 19.
I never reported it and it is something that's always haunted me.

Report him before he reports you.

Please call the police otherwise he might and you could get in trouble.
Even if he doesn't ring the police he might hold this over you and use it to force you into sex etc in the future.
Call the police and repeat it now

*report

Report report report!

Please, please report it to the Police. My ex attacked me, and I found a level of violence inside me that I never knew existed, trying to fight him off. I scratched, and pinched, and finally ending up biting him to try and get him to stop. I called the Police. He had more significant injuries than I did, but he was the one who was charged, and I was the one who got help from a DV charity.

You are worth more than the life you're living now.

I'm so sorry this has happened. Anyone of us can call the police for you if you feel you can't. What are your plans for sleep tonight ? Do you have a spare room you can suggest he uses as a bare minimum ?

OP I’m so sorry you’re going through this . Call for help 💕

It isn’t a fucking fine line. He was on top of her and forced his tongue into her mouth. You may call it trying to give her attention. I would call it sexual assault.

Please call the police.

Wtf have i just read "or do you feel like he was trying to give you attention and thought you were just playing saying you weren't interested". No means fucking NO and that's the end of it. ANYTHING else is rape or attempted rape. There is no thin line here op, you acted in self defence because he did not stop when you told him to.

He tried to rape you and you defended yourself.

If you are scared please call the police.

If you don’t want to do this please call someone who will
Come and support you leave with the children just until you can assess the situation and your safety.

You really need to call the police