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Negging ?

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Aja838 · 26/12/2019 20:38

Been on 3 dates with a guy. He's been quite gentlemanly so far, and we had our first kiss on the 3rd date.
However I got some drunken text in the middle of the night saying "I just wanna be so nasty with you right now, but you're far too nice."

Very taken aback, what do others think ? Feels like negging to me, does it sound like he just wants one thing ?

OP posts:

Spacebowlisback · 28/12/2019 01:10

Whore/ virgin dynamic.
Or very misjudged.

VaggieMight · 28/12/2019 01:49

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lexiepuppy · 28/12/2019 02:35

You could always ask him to send a picture of his cock and that you will send a picture of your pussy.........after he sends his dick pic...... send him a picture of a cat.🙀

Then block and delete the arsehole!

Original poster

Aja838 · 28/12/2019 09:36

He said he was really drunk when he sent that, I just said I was ill and that i'd let him know when I was better, but tbh it seems like he thinks that because we have kissed once it's ok to suddenly progress to that so not sure I feel like hearing from him again.

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lilgreen · 28/12/2019 12:01

I agree op. Being drunk is not a excuse.

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