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The secrets in the bedroom across the stairs

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TheCWord · 17/12/2019 18:35

Partner been sleeping in another room for 6 months now - we had a minor grouch and to be honest I like my space. He says he doesn't want to disturb me.. But when I logged on to his iPad and then onto Chrome, I can see he watches open most nights. I have hinted that I can guess what he is doing but he says he's watching YouTube. I feel sick. It doesn't make me feel attractive and I'm not that bad! I ask him to come upstairs but he doesn't. He smokes cannabis every night which I tell him I hate, so I don't even kiss him goodnight. Its my house, I can't leave, but I can't just boot him out either, I'm not unkind. But, what can I do?? I suppose I could turn the Internet off at night?
Any thoughts kind mums?

OP posts:
Mrsmummy90 · 26/12/2019 21:44

Well done op!! Xxx

BaolFan · 27/12/2019 10:31

Change the locks.

MyNewBearTotoro · 27/12/2019 10:33

Well done. Wishing you all the best and as you settle into life without him. Flowers

Interestedwoman · 27/12/2019 18:11

Someone can both have had a shit life and be a bad person.

Well done @TheCWord ! Stay strong and don't slip back into being with him again. Happy New Year! xxx

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