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Tell me I'm not going mad

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onemoresmartie · 09/12/2019 15:36

Met someone on a dating website last week, we arranged to meet for a drink he was really keen and brought me flowers which I thought was lovely for a first date
We arranged to meet up again and I went to his home town which is about 30 min drive away from my house, nothing was said about staying over but I had too much to drink to then drive home so I stayed over at his apartment

Basically his back ground is that he hasn't moved to the area for very long and does contract work, has a house up north that he keeps and he was there this weekend visiting his daughter

I have a sneaking gut feeling that he has a wife/partner up there and now I feel like a fool.
His contact has been minimal all weekend and I haven't heard from him at all today

We were supposed to meet up again yesterday but he said he had to stay an extra night

Do I run a mile or send me a message to ask him wtf is going on

He seemed really genuine and keen and we got on really well, says on his profile that he isn't after a casual fling Hmm

OP posts:
Lifeinaplasticbox · 13/12/2019 16:14

Well keep doing what you’re doing then and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
I’d learn from this . All in or all out is ok after a while but 2 dates is way too soon for that.

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