I have a 8 day old baby and a one year old and ten year old and have barely slept so this will be a rambling post but I need to post.
I’m trying to work out if my “partner” is emotionally abusive or maybe I just don’t like him and I’m being dramatic. I will type in bullet points the things he has done because I literally haven’t the mental ability to compose proper paragraphs atm
- night before my section he sat on the pc playing his games while our 1 year old screamed inconsolably and refused to see to him so I had to sit there for 2 hours rocking and comforting him at 2am before my op
- since home from hosp doesn’t wash up or clean or cook or anything for other boys (oldest boys is mine not his the toddler is his)
- refuses to pick up my son from schooo
So I have to struggle there after surgery
- refuses to go to the shop
To get me more maternity pads so I had to go there four days after surgery to get them and all he wanted to know is did I remember his Diet Coke
Feeding our newborn and old and cold bottle of milk rather than get up and do a new one
- told me to “shoo” in a really horrible way after he took the baby from me
There is so much more. I want to make him
Leave but he said no he won’t. We rent. It’s his home
Too. And he will kick the door in and police won’t care because they don’t get involved in this. And I am
The nasty one because he has tried his best and all I do is moan and cry. And now the midwives are concerned because they have seen me upset and it’s all my fault they are concerned because I was depressed before I met him so ho can he be to blame
He wanted to take the baby at two days old to his work! I said no and he said I’m using the baby as a weapon. Now he wants to take him
Tomorrow to his work and I said no and he said I’m
Jealous of the girls at his work and that’s why