So DD 6 was getting ready to go to dancing class and OH said he would wait for her in the car. I went out to the car just to give him a hug, he was on his phone and wasn't expecting me, the colour drained from his face and he was trying desperately to click off whatever he was on its not porn as I don't care about that and he wouldn't be watching it in his car .
I let it go later that night I asked him to send me a video of DD he got his phone but was hiding the screen on his WhatsApp so I couldn't see.
Then the next day OH cleaned the bathroom, hoovered up and done the dishes (he doesn't do that without me nagging). He suggested taking me to a nice restaurant next week then talking about taking some time off work to spend time with me he's never normally this nice .
The frequency of sex is the same nothing changed there
He's gone to work now in London til Friday evening, (he stays at his parents 3 nights a week to work).
My gut instinct says something fishy going on I have no idea how to get on his phone and I'm just wondering where to go from here.