Im 25 and been with my boyfreind 7 years ( no children or marriage) not wanting kids as of yet... anyway we have had various problems and are now working through them, the problem is during our months of arguments i developed a huge crush on a man at work, he is single also and has also started messaging me through facebook we are just general chit chat harmless meme sending ect.... the problem is i feel quilty fancing someone else other than my partner, this guy at work is every thing/ look wise i think this is whats troubeing me and i cant get him out my mind! i woudnt act on it, and am just wondering if its normal??
anyone else had the same thing??
i do also think i need to stop messaging him as this is just fueling it all further....
thank you X