We are currently seperated and he is the sole earner. I've just spoken to wellfare office and they told me that I would be entitled to enough universal credit to cover me staying alone in our house with kids.
My husband's brother rents out a room in our house, ideally I would want them both to move out and get a place together.
Unreasonable?
The main reason for living as 'friends' for now was 1) I didn't know where I stood financially and 2) my dh is stopping an addiction to weed where he could potentially be vulnerable.
Having had a phycologist who has alot of experience in substance addiction tell me that staying with him is posing a risk to our children's future (they are learning from his behaviour etc) also that he has 20 years worth of supressed emotions to come out, my gut is telling me the best thing would be for him and his brother to move out in the new year.