So been with my dh 10 years, last year I found some messages to someone he worked with, they wernt terrible but just a little inappropriate, like they would message first thing in the morning and last at night. It would always be when I'm not around or when I'm off to put dd to bed. Anyways I pulled him up on it and had a break but manage to sort things out. My anxiety doesn't help. But he doesn't understand this and if he doesn't tell me I make up my own answer which is likely to be worse then the truth. He doesn't work there anyone but still message the girls at his old work. He still doesn't tell me this. But is it right.. Am I just just thinking it all??