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Would you dump him for lying he had a job?

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ploddyttt · 10/10/2019 15:21

I started seeing a guy for 5 months now.
He told me he worked at the airport as a baggage handler.
Didn't think anything of it,a couple of times a week he would take pics of the airport terminal and him sat in the cafe on his "break"
Anyway I found out he doesn't work at the airport he is unemployed.
So not only did he lie but he went to some extremes to make me think he had a job.
(I'm sure there's a film somewhere like this but can't remember the name)
Tbh I don't care he doesn't have a job if he is actively looking etc
I just find it creepy going to the airport to take pics etc
What would you do ?

OP posts:
Majorcollywobble · 10/10/2019 21:45

At this stage in the relationship it should be a time that you are building on the initial attraction- in your case the relationship is built on lies . It won’t improve .

Figgygal · 10/10/2019 21:47

Dump
He's a liar before anything else

Gotnopokerface · 10/10/2019 21:59

Cocklodger 😂😂 what a great word. How have I lived this long without knowing it???

OP, he sounds a bit dodgey. Do whatever makes you happy, but I think just ask him outright to see what he says.

NameChangeNugget · 10/10/2019 22:18

I couldn’t date someone that didn’t work and a liar as well. Absolute no no

Underyoursky · 10/10/2019 22:21

I would check it out with him first to make sure you have got the right end of the stick.

Mermaidsinthesand · 10/10/2019 23:28

Maybe he used to work there so sending you old photos. Seems very strange yet worrying behaviour to just rock up at an airport grab a costa snap a photo and fuck off home

Either way hes a liar move on

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