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Guy won't make plans

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thespywho · 04/09/2019 20:05

I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months or so.

I like him. At first we spent a lot of time together but lately he's so reluctant to make any plans. When we do have plans, he often bails last minute or I'm left wondering if he'll turn up. We often make plans, on the day I follow up on them and then he won't reply to my message until after we're meant to meet even though he's online.

He asked if I wanted to do something this weekend so we agreed Sunday. Today I asked him what we were doing and his response was 'I'll check my diary not sure if I'm free'. After avoiding the subject for a while he finally admits he doesn't know if he wants to see me this weekend.

I've now said that I feel he is messing me around and he said he needs space. I feel like I've messed it up - have I?

OP posts:
C0untDucku1a · 05/09/2019 19:23

You need to have a look at what you accept in a relationship though. This guy was awful.

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