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Original poster

Guy I'm seeing ....has a lovebite...not off me???

36 replies

lovemeifthatswhatuwanado · 01/09/2019 17:45

Started seeing him??? End of April.
Just started hanging out and sleeping together.
Went out for food /drinks the usual
Text daily about all sorts
Haven't had any conversation about anything as didn't want to pressure him.
He was out last night
Said he fell over and sent me a pic saying think I have a love bite and a pic of him with a love bite
I don't know how I'm supposed to react to this

OP posts:
Unreasonable123 · 01/09/2019 17:49

Are you exclusive ?

Rivkka · 01/09/2019 17:50

Dump him

BogglesGoggles · 01/09/2019 17:52

Well he drink texted you so you don’t surely?

JaniceBattersby · 01/09/2019 17:53

Who gets lovebites in 2019?

Larlarleighlee · 01/09/2019 17:53

Get rid op... sooner rather than later

Ethicalbluey45 · 01/09/2019 17:54

fell on his neck ??? I would want a reconstruction if he honestly think you would fall for it , not a good way to start a relationship a conversation needs to be had if he is cheating better know now than few months down the line

Original poster
lovemeifthatswhatuwanado · 01/09/2019 17:54

He's just text me now sober and showed me the pic.
I don't know if it's a love bite or just where he's fell but I just think it's disrespectful

OP posts:
TheQueef · 01/09/2019 17:54

Is he 12?

acatcalledjohn · 01/09/2019 17:56

I don't know if it's a love bite or just where he's fell but I just think it's disrespectful

I don't think you know what 'disrespectful' means.

Original poster
lovemeifthatswhatuwanado · 01/09/2019 17:57

@TheQueef he is 37

OP posts:
readitandwept · 01/09/2019 18:18

He's just text me now sober and showed me the pic.
I don't know if it's a love bite or just where he's fell but I just think it's disrespectful

I'm confused. Is he claiming the fall caused the mark or is he saying the two things aren't connected and just telling you outright he has a lovebite?

Original poster
lovemeifthatswhatuwanado · 01/09/2019 18:20

I think he's telling me he has got a love bite

OP posts:
Igetknockeddownbutgetupagain · 01/09/2019 18:59

Then I would ditch. I can’t even begin to imagine why he thought you would like to see or be told he has a love bite. Have you just left it so far as ‘read’ but not replied to?

I’d just block him now, no explanation needed.

thedancingbear · 01/09/2019 19:18

Was there anyone else at the youth club who can vouch for what happened?

AnyFucker · 01/09/2019 19:21

Arf

BumbleBeee69 · 01/09/2019 19:30

Jesus christ get some self respect and ditch this cretin OP Flowers

kenandbarbie · 01/09/2019 19:32

That sounds so tiring and irritating. I would just dump him.

category12 · 01/09/2019 19:35

Dump.

He's basically telling you he fucked someone else and is testing how you react to it.

GoldLeafTree · 01/09/2019 20:03

I agree with PP. He wants to see how you react to the love bite, probably so he knows how you'd react if he told you he's slept with someone else.

Get rid

Geog1985 · 01/09/2019 20:05

Goodness me. What a charmer! Get rid. NC him. He’s a child!

Reallynowdear · 01/09/2019 20:11

Just dump him, he's testing you.

SimonJT · 01/09/2019 20:12

Are you exclusive or free to see other people?

tryingtobebetterallthetime · 01/09/2019 20:29

I think a "love bite" is just downright disgusting. Just yuck.

Sassypants82 · 01/09/2019 20:33

I would interpret his message to mean he fell and the resulting mark on his neck looks like a love bite.

Al2O3 · 01/09/2019 20:37

You sound like a pair of mating animals, doing animal mating things. But with lots of human punctuation. Dontcha???

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