Is this flirting

[Thatsalovelycuppatea]

So you are out shopping. Your dh is at one end of the shop, but still in view.
You turn round to then see a woman older than him laughing and taking a hat of your dh. He claims he didn't know her. I watched them for five minutes then went over. I said is she flirting with you, do you know each other? She looked at me and walked off.
My thoughts- if she was genuine she would have apologised.
Apparently, she gave him a sob story that she needed a hat for her dad and could he try it on to see what it was like. Whilst I was watching them it did not look like that too me. ESP with the larking about.

Am I overthinking?? It just made me angry and I don't know why. Thanks.

Have to agree with others, you do sound abusive and controlling. Can you imagine if you were talking to someone (stranger or friend) and your DH said that. I would be horrified and would be telling you to get out of the relationships. If he wrote in, than I would tell him the same.
The sad thing is you will remain as you are, as you dont see anything wrong with your behaviour, infact you feel the DH and the stranger were at fault. I feel so sorry for your H, I hope he soon gets out of this toxic and extremely scary relationship