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His secret is out...

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mordecaithomas · 16/08/2019 07:09

23 weeks pregnant and I've been no contact with the father for over a month.

I posted a thread a while ago, not sure if anyone would remember. He lied to everyone, told his family there was no chance it could be his and asked me to "take the dna from another man" when they ask for proof after birth (which they want). He's been horrendous throughout the whole pregnancy. Then I found out he had a new girlfriend and he told me she had no idea and he didn't intend on telling her. From that point I'd had enough and decided to go no contact and haven't heard from him for over a month.

Last night, I got a message request from his girlfriend. She'd found my Instagram and seen my photos and asked me how I knew him and if the baby was his.

I had to tell her the truth. I feel absolutely awful.

She's only 20 years old and she now thinks her world has blown apart and I feel absolutely horrendous. She's the same age as my youngest sister and I feel so fucking terrible for her.

I don't even know why I'm posting this... I've just woken up from the worst nights sleep after speaking to this poor girl for a couple of hours last night. Terrible dreams about the baby's father.

Eurgh.

OP posts:
Wauden · 17/08/2019 09:54

Take care of yourself Flowers

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