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he turns his messenger off

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sonicfox · 19/03/2019 16:24

been dating a guy for a few months. going well. all good.
we chat on messenger every night for an hour or two. when we stop chatting he hides his last active status and its kept on like that all day. he doesnt respond to messages until he turns it back on and will chat away....so if i send him a message saying hey hows your day he doesnt read it until he turns it back to online and then he replys.
yet if he sends me a message he will chat away no bother.
to me its all on his terms. it screams to me that he doesnt want me seeing when hes online, he doesnt want me to talk to him...
hes on annual leave this week and doesnt have much on so its not like hes busy...but will wait till 9pm to chat. weird.
i dont like the vibe its giving me. thoughts?

OP posts:
MashedSpud · 20/03/2019 08:39

Op, you need to focus on your relationship with your fiancé and figure out why you need attention from married men.

ShatnersWig · 20/03/2019 08:41

@MashedSpud And also why she has a fiance and enjoys attention from married men when she's gay.

MashedSpud · 20/03/2019 08:48

I wonder what’s next @ shatnerswig, probably cheating on fiancé whilst gay with married gay men and pregnant? Shock

ShatnersWig · 20/03/2019 08:50

Well last night they were on someone else's threads and calling people bitches so amazed they hasn't popped up here yet to do the same.

Bookworm4 · 20/03/2019 09:50

Don't think OP is in a position to be calling anyone names.

thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 20/03/2019 19:22

I wonder what’s next @ shatnerswig, probably cheating on fiancé whilst gay with married gay men and pregnant?

... with twins Grin

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