Sex - very different with new person? *TMI*

[Readytorewind]

This is going to be quite gross in terms of tmi, I apologise in advance but I'm totally thrown!

Just got back from a brilliant weekend away with a new guy. REALLY like him but it's only been a few weeks so just getting to know you stage.

The only thing I'm about is the sex. We had sex 6 times from Sat night - this morning. He lasts absolutely ages. As in over half an hour, everytime. I'm not used to this. My exes have always cum quickly. 5 mins tops. We did a lot of foreplay and I came (and squirted ) a lot. When I've wiped this morning there was a tinge of blood and I think it's basically friction? It didn't hurt at all during sex and I was really turned on. I have quite low self esteem so I'm wondering if it's taking him that long to cum because he's not attracted to me? But his behaviour and what he says doesn't match up with this theory as he's always kissing me, touching me, saying how great I am etc.

He's a fair bit younger (he's 31, I'm 39). Is lasting so long in the realm of normal? I'm very satisfied so feel a bit silly but it's just a nagging thought I've been getting?

So... male perspective: the first time it's quick, the second time (in a day) it takes longer. The third time (if I even can!) it takes ages. Is there a pattern like that or is there 30min every single time? And yes, clarify - encourage him not to hold back, tell him you feel sexy when he lets go and doesn't worry so much about you. I always like hearing that, and puts my mind at ease.

Blimey, just seen this post. You go girl, enjoy it and if you want to have it 10 times a day, by all means do so, as long as you both aim to please.... haters gonna hate. You lucky girl!