Furious

[Loveneedslove]

So the guy I was seeing that told me he was separated from his wife.

Seems he's been seeing another two girls for months and still seeing them now.

So tempted for revenge. 👊🏼

You can do this. I'd suggest forgetting even thinking about future relationships. I know you feel broken right now, but these feelings are temporary and you will start to feel better soon.

He wasn't seeing other girls unless you're all under 18.

@Donkdonkgoo I just feel so stupid.

But you are right, you live and learn.

He sounds like this one, are they related 😂

@QueenOfTheCroneAge absolutely 😘

@Cuntcuntcunt one is married and he doesn't know.

You broke my.....WTAF are you taking about....are you trying to blame OP for this cuntflap... currently MN is rife with wives finding out about their husbands shenanigans..... are they also to blame for failing to spot the signals

They're still women. Not girls.

Forget revenge- that just gives him more attention that he deserves.

Book yourself a break away and move on. Don't let him make you bitter.

Yeah ok @Cuntcuntcunt you've made your VERY important point

You've been blithely trying to get pregnant and you seem rather too lighthearted about all this. Odd reaction.

OP was using contraception.

These untrustworthy men need naming and shaming, just walking away just allows them to move on to their next victim

@Donkdonkgoo no, I'm absolutely not! I'm telling her not to give up on men on the basis of this one being an arsehole. She just needs to take the advice on this thread and learn to spot the signs of said arsehole - e.g. making her delete social media, etc. I'm not blaming her, I'm telling her to get help, e.g. Freedom Programme, instead of deciding her only option is to remain single.

The person I agreed with signposted you to the freedom programme.

@littlecloudling that's the best way I think

@Cuntcuntcunt I can't get pregnant. This is probably the bloke I was with.

He loves himself that much he would search for posts about him

@potatoscone isn't that just an online course?

@Donkdonkgoo don't tempt me 😂😂😂

@Cuntcuntcunt why do you say OP was trying to get pregnant?

isn't that just an online course?

No, no it's not.

@potatoscone oh I thought it was when I looked online

Listen...I was once fooled by a guy. I met him at a party in his house. I didn't know his GF was there or that he had a GF.

We got into a relationship...i introduced him to family...only to find out he had a long term GF... who was there when he chatted me up.

I was so angry.... pre smartphone days...so no blocking. Next time he called... I said his GFs name. He tried to wriggle out of it.

I just told him to get lost and leave me alone.

I was 24/25 then.... I always wanted to get married and have kids. I wasn't going to let that idiot change it for me.

You often meet a lot of frogs on the journey. How old are you?

Thank you @SandyY2K I'm 29

I was in a long term relationship before this and we just grew apart. So this was nice at the start, I should've seen the warning signs. But you just don't in a way.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't think anyone deserves to be treated badly.

OP I'm sorry you're getting a kicking from some posters. It's very easy to have 20/20 vision when your only involvement is from the business end of a keyboard.

He's really done the dirty on you (and his wife and the others), but men like that can be very convincing. Beating yourself up about it isn't going to change anything. Give yourself time to hurt, then heal.

Maybe you're naive, maybe you're too trusting, but you'll learn from this. Just don't let him have the power to make you bitter and twisted. He's taken a few months of your life, don't let him have the rest of it too.