my H had his mistress set up on MSN - she was blocked so couldnt contact him but I guess he used to chat away while I was downstairs cooking tea
numerous times I came in & he quickly closed a window on the computer looking sheepish but of course there was no history out of the ordinary
they must have been having a good laugh at me while I was out the room
I never found txts from her until the weekend when he told her he was making a decision about his marriage - surprisingly I found a txt on his phone the following morning.....stupid bloke