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Would you consider dating a man this height?

262 replies

Amazona24 · 05/12/2018 13:55

A man who is 5,5". I'm quite small myself in 5,2". I mean I'm not shallow and it depends ultimately if they are a nice person but I just feel I had a niggle above someone being that short. I'm OLD and most of the decent men I've come across as shorter than the average height.
I'm preparing to be flamed but that's how I feel.

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SauvingnonBlanketyBlanc · 05/12/2018 14:32

No but I'm 5ft 10 so big difference,Dh is 5ft 9

Heartofglass21 · 05/12/2018 14:33

I'm tall, and my DH is a few inches taller, and the same height as me when I'm wearing heels. I have dated guys shorter than me in the past, personality is way more important than height. Look at Jamie Cullum and Sophie Dahl. They always appear to be blissfully happy together, the height difference isn't an issue at all.

Bernina · 05/12/2018 14:35

But you are also really short?

Lalliella · 05/12/2018 14:36

You short girls should leave the tall men for us tall girls and only date short men! Otherwise it reduces the choice for us even more. If we are shallow enough to only fancy men taller than us, which I’m afraid I am!

Ohyesiam · 05/12/2018 14:37

I like men to be taller than me( works best for sex and kissing I find!)
But he is taller than you so no problem.

midsomermurderess · 05/12/2018 14:40

I don't understand why tall men want to date short women. I sometimes wonder how they even notice them. At 5'2 you are very short. I think you might have to be grateful for what you might get.

RagingWhoreBag · 05/12/2018 14:40

Of course I would because I’m not shallow! I’d date Peter Dinklage and I’m pretty sure he’s shorter than that!

amusedbush · 05/12/2018 14:40

I'm just under 5' 5 and DH is 6'3. I've only dated one guy under 6' and it was too weird for me, I'm afraid. He was 5' 4 on his very best day, plus REALLY slim so he was kind of dainty and childlike. He had to wear ladies skinny jeans Shock

Personally I just find tall men more attractive. That's not to say that I could never be attracted to a short guy - I just haven't yet.

amusedbush · 05/12/2018 14:41

midsomermurderess

Well, aren't you a treat Hmm

Quarky · 05/12/2018 14:41

I'm quite short myself so I like shorter men. My husband isn't tall and I prefer to be able to speak to someone without looking upwards all the time.

ravenmum · 05/12/2018 14:43

I'm 5'9, current bf is an inch taller than me; exh was 5 inches taller. I normally go for tall men but actually having someone the same height is nice, I'd definitely do it again. You can just kiss without having to wait for him to bend down, much more equal :)

InsomniacAnonymous · 05/12/2018 14:43

I'm old now, but I remember turning down a date with a friend purely because he was very short. It wasn't so much that I thought he looked bad, but that beside him I felt really enormous huge, -a bit like Shrek.

Blush I wasn't overweight, just taller.

TemptressofWaikiki · 05/12/2018 14:44

OP, you DO sound shallow though. I am 5'9 and dated a shorter man for many years. No wonder some women are single.

InsomniacAnonymous · 05/12/2018 14:44

Meant to mention that I was 17 at the time. ^^

KatherinaMinola · 05/12/2018 14:44

Why all the threads about short men? This is the second one this week Confused

Yes, I'd consider dating a man that height. I'm short myself, but I would if I were taller too.

Escolar · 05/12/2018 14:45

My Dad is around 5’4” (three inches shorter than my Mum). They’ve been happily married for 50 years and he’s the best Dad and husband I know.

SheHasNotions · 05/12/2018 14:45

At 5'11, no. I wouldn't.

Its a primal (or at least very deeply socially conditioned) thing, I think. But its highly unlikely I could be attracted to a man so much smaller than me.

At your height, though? Yes, why not. You're tiny Grin.

halfwitpicker · 05/12/2018 14:45

Do you fancy him?

AndThereSaw · 05/12/2018 14:47

I married a man 4" shorter than me with a very slim petite mother.
I had tiny babies who grew to be petite adults.

A couple of points:
A small person can still be a massive twat (Reader, I divorced him).
A small baby does not mean an easy labour: 4 days of unproductive labour anyone? The pushing was short but the 'prelabour' was agony and endless.
Clothes shopping for a 14 year old girl who wears a slim age 9-10 is hellish difficult.
My exH was little because his Mum was little. His Dad was over 6'. Don't judge by height because it really is meaningless.

halfwitpicker · 05/12/2018 14:48

I had a male friend who wanted more IFYSWIM and he was around the same height as me, BUT he had tiny hands, smaller than mine! Not appealing.

DaphneBroonsHandbag · 05/12/2018 14:49

At 5'2 you are very short. I think you might have to be grateful for what you might get.

Did you mean to be so rude? 😂 Jeezo, here, have my first Biscuit

crimsonlake · 05/12/2018 14:49

Every one is the same height sitting down.

WindinTheWillowsLover · 05/12/2018 14:49

How shallow. Meet him and see if there is any chemistry.

LellyMcKelly · 05/12/2018 14:49

The real question is whether decent men, regardless of height, would want to date women that shallow? What’s next? Don’t date someone with freckles, or who has a weird ear lobes? Men, like women, are all different sizes and shapes and none of it has anything to do with their personality, or kindness, or sense of humour, or how they love you.

SleepySofa · 05/12/2018 14:50

I'm 5'3" and have had several boyfriends over 6'. In fact, DP is just over 6' and we don't have any "mechanical issues" - what a weird thing to say!

I wouldn't rule someone out because of their height, provided we got on well and fancied each other, but I do prefer a tall man.

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