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[sugar34plum]

please someone be online

hi sugar, what's the op for if you don't mind my asking?

have you had any contact with him at all?

i know how scary and daunting things can be especially on top of a huge knock to your self confidence like this.

you'll come thru this tho, you just have to ride out the really crap times and come on here and vent and get the support we can all give each other.

big big hugs mate
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Hi I've just seen this, wanted to say how sorry I am and what a total piece of shit your ex is. you and your children deserve better, you will get through this, be strong! hugs x

hi pc sorry your going through it to. DS2 is having a cochlear implant at St Thomas's in london. Not had so much as a text from h. I know its not my fault but keep asking myself where did it go wrong what didnt i do that i could have to make it all ok?

god! i so empathise with that. i bet quite a few of us could too sugar. why is it that we always think it's our fault, something we did or didn't do. i don't get it either.

i'm away till 11th july but i can take 12th july off if you'd like some moral support at Thommies? it's not too far from where i live and my mum'll be here to look after dd.

honestly i'd be more than happy to to come with you.

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Sugar, if it helps, one of DD's friends had a cochlear implant just before she started school, and has done very well with it. They still have to go to London to have checks every now and then, but otherwise no problems.

Try not to feel so bad - youre the one who's stayed with your DCs!

pc thankyou so much for the offer. I will happily accept any offers of support i can get.I know of a few kids with cochlears and they are great. My problem is thats my ds that is being operated on anywhere between 2-8 hours of surgery. And icant be with him i have to trust my baby in someone elses hands. He had an emergency double hernia at 10 weeks old and he only weighed 3lb 9oz then and i was a wreck but than i had h love and support at that time. I wont have that again.

sugar, sorry been busy/away the last couple of days.

d'you want me to keep you company on 12th?

hope you've had a nice weekend too.
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pc id love you too had offers of support but no one confirming just found out today ds and i get to spend the night in a flat night before op.So much better than being on the ward night before.

okay, can you email me the info and we'll talk "off-line" about it?

sugar, haven't heard from you. have warned my boss not to expect me next thursday but have also told him i might be in!

am off till weds evening now, email me if you can, otherwise will check in when i get back.

hope all's well.

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Pc have emailed you.

Harman hi he should be out by the friday the 13th of all days! But he will be going back again in 2 weeks then 4 weeeks and lots of time over the next 2 years for switch on and progress reports, so stay in touch we may have appointments the same day at some point if your dd is ongoing there?