Help with DH's 'hangxiety'

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My DH has been on a lads weekend and as you would expect got very drunk. He left the group to stumble back to the hotel but has had a memory lapse. Whilst I am 100% confident nothing happened, his anxiety is making him think all sorts of bad things could have happened. I'm talking being spiked, mugged, having an affair. I think it is just his fear of not knowing, but he wants to get a sexual health check. He woke up in his clothes and has nothing to suggest he had been up to no good. Not sure how to feel about this. Anyone out there have any advice or been in a similar position?

Yes hand job cheaper I daresay but that's not the point, it wouldn't require a STI check

Yes hand job cheaper I daresay but that's not the point, it wouldn't require a STI check

agreed

diamonds Gemini

I don't disagree. I was just pointing out that handjobs are indeed on a prostitute's 'menu'

Yes agree and if he'd stuck with the hand job maybe OP wouldn't have found out her partner was a lying cheating prick this rotten way

No good way to find out but hopefully she would have got shot of him painlessly and swiftly another way. Dick

I don't disagree. I was just pointing out that handjobs are indeed on a prostitute's 'menu'

oh yes I agree... but surely that option wouldn't initiate an STI check

IMHO He shagged her. He is now so guilt ridden that it is making him ill. He is lying to try and quell his massive anxiety attack and also to try and put it behind him. It will not be settled until he is completely honest.