WWYD about DP having a mental breakdown?

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Basically I can see that DP has had a mental breakdown. Over the past few years he has been depressed and stressed and this has led to him making some bad choices. He is completely distraught that he has done this. However he has terrible mood swings and calls me horrible names and blames me for a lot of things which in his more lucid moments he knows aren’t true. It’s hurtful and upsetting and I am angry with him and I don’t know what to do to help him. Any advice would be great thank you.

You've done amazingly OP. I hope the events of the weekend that brought this all to a head will turn out to be the beginning of brighter things for you and the DC. How are they doing, and how are you?

If you have a chance could you write down a list if the worst things - because being human you will wobble, and this bit will hurt even though it's right - and then you can refer back to it?

You are a strong woman and a great mum.

Thank you vanity.