Found Partner On AdultWork !!!

[MummyMarie1990]

Hi I’m wondering if anyone can help me or knows anything about this sort of thing.. basically I’ve just found my partner after 11 years on a site called AdultWork with escorts offering their services 🙈 the page had timed out but was stuck in the page where I seen various messages he had sent too different women I’ve tried investigating as much as I can into this site and what this and that means but too one particular girl he has said massage please then a bit further a message saying booking and then a couple more dozen feedback.. I have obvs confronted him and after a while managed too her out of him he had just been looking and admitted too making s booking but couldn’t “actually” go through with it.. I don’t believe him of course and I’ve said how do you explain the message feedback I assume asking for feedback surely there wouldn’t be a message asking for feedback if nothing happened right.. he abolsutmey trying too bare face lie too me I’m 5 months pregnant with our second child and I feel sick too my stomach I know for a fact he’s met up with this girl but have no way too prove it like I said too him why would there be this feedback message then and he just says he don’t know I’ve split up with him and will be going too get checked out soon..

That's just horrible for you, OP - you must be so upset.

Please do go to your GP, or to the local hospital clinic, as soon as you can to be checked out.

Perhaps the emails asking for feedback come through automatically even if the appointment didn't actually happen, but I don't know. Even if he didn't actually do it the fact that he even contemplated seeing a prostitute is just incredibly wrong.

Getting yourself checked out is sensible. Have you told anyone? The last thing you need especially while pregnant is to go through this alone.

but couldn’t “actually” go through with it..
Oh yeah - they all say that!!!
Get to your local GUM or SHAW clinic asap.
I hope you've kicked him out.

what an absolute shitbag for you OP

there's a thousand threads on here where women find their blokes on AW and they say, 'but I couldn't go through with it! I promise!'

Absolute bullshit.

You can do this without him, love.

Sorry this has happened to you. Would he get feedback if he hadn't gone through with it ? Regardless of it, his intent was there.

I’ve split up with him just need too sort myself somewhere too go it’s his house I have nowhere to go so I’ve been down council.. I’m gutted really am I’ve had a feeling for months something ent been right and when I looked there it was you really don’t just get gut feelings for nothing.. I’m pretty sure if a message is requiring feedback it’s pretty obvs and yea the fact hes even on there in first place disgusts me..

Of course if there is feedback from escort then he met them, I am glad you got rid of the dirty git. Well done.

You have conclusive evidence, stick to your guns. Best wishes for your pregnancy, it’s not so bad doing it on your own, you get all the best bits to yourself

You unfortunately need an STI check as some of them can be harmful in pregnancy.

The feedback confirms that he availed of the service it seems.

Ivory OP I have experience of this and I can guarantee he's booked and been with a prostitute. It's probably only the tip of the iceberg too. Wish it'd left before my baby was born but stuck it out till i went back to work and for all my ducks in a row.

*sorry not Ivory

I've been here too. We had a lot of counselling and tried to make it work but I just couldn't trust him again and 8 weeks after our baby was born I found out I was right not to! That was 5 years ago and now I am in a good place. I should have left a lot sooner x

Hi just to let you know I'm a adult worker and it's not a porn site it's where you hire someone for sex or escorting .

Well done for dumping this sleazy little scratcher.

Complete and utter bullshit that he hasn't gone through with it; what the actual fuck is up with these people and their ridiculous excuses?

Unfortunately some will just continue to lie, lie, lie and don't have the decency to at least hold their hands up when they've blatantly been caught at it. Pathetic.

Being a single mum can be tough sometimes not gonna lie but much better than the alternative of staying with this loser and his hooker habit.

Do you have any friends or family that could put you up for a bit or help towards a deposit?

You and your little ones deserve so much better than this.

I once used the site you're talking about to get DH a "treat" for his 50th and if it's got as far as sending the emails about feedback then he has certainly made a booking and the other person did not mark him as having not attended.. so yeah.

busybarbaraYou bought your husband a woman for a birthday treat?

It's more like hiring for an hour really.

You hired a woman’s body for your husband to use? Classy

The worlds gone mad .... I bought my ex a watch for his 50th 🙄

Mine isn't an ex, just saying.

Yeah you can keep that little diamond —away from the rest of us— the reason this thread caught my eye was because my EX went in it looking for escorts I presume and got so caught up in it he decided to offer some lucky gal HIS services. I pissed myself when that came to light

He’s not your ex because you let him use sex workers? Are you serious?

Oh wowsers

Please don't listen to rent-a-vag spouting that grim tale.....This situation is definitely not normal or acceptable, as other ladies on the thread have pointed out.

There are sex workers who post here. I'd be interested to know from them if wives/ partners booking their services for their man is quite common? It's certainly not unknown, but I imagine quite rare?

quite common now