Would you believe this woman who's claiming my partner cheated on me?

[Fran6581]

She contacted me via FB telling me she'd been seeing my partner until she found out about me, she humiliated me by copying my friends & family in the message. He denied the affair but 3 weeks on, he's talking to her again & he claims they're just friends.

But the fact that he's not leaving me for her makes me feel special to be honest he hasn’t yet but he may still, or if not for the next one. Why do you want to be with him?

She humiliated you and he's still friendly with her? I bet they're having a good time talking about you. Why are you even bothering with this useless, disloyal man? He's just not that into you.

Spamming other boards doesn't make your story true. If it's true that's even sadder. You have posted about him cutting your son out of stuff. You stay with him and allow that. He is cheating on you and all you keep doing is posting, but not actually doing anything. If he is prepared to cheat with her he doesn't give a shit about your feelings. He doesn't give a shit about how she makes you feel. And let's be honest, you are only humiliated because your exfriend now knows that he cheated on you. So all the 'we were meant to be so it's ok that I shagged my mates boyfriend' was bollocks and you fell for it. It also shows her that she didn't lose anything when her mate and boyfriend fucked her over.

Special?? Because you're the one who gets to clean his dirty gruds after he's been shagging her? Wowsers. Get rid love.

Stop playing the pick me dance. He is having his cake and eating it just now. If he doesn't leave you for her there will be someone else in the future he will leave you for. Where is your self respect? Why are you so desperate to hold onto this twat?

But he doesn't think you're special. If he did, then he wouldn't be shagging around. He wouldn't be letting someone humiliate you.
I haven't seen your other threads, but it seems obvious to me that he's a dick and you are letting him treat you like shit.
Be better than that.

I guess I like the fact that it's me he chose, the others are just "the other women", even my mum told me she's just the other woman

Your mum is telling you whatever will make you feel better. He is not a prize to be won. Far from it.

He is putting your sexual health at risk also he doesn’t love you . Would you cheat on him? I’m guessing no because you love him therefore you must know he only with you because you’re one of the few women that would put up with this bullshit , don’t you think you deserve more?????

And there will be lots of other women because you are allowing him to get away with it. Tell him to get his stuff and leave, you deserve better treatment. Saying she’s “just the other woman” is shocking advice from your Mum. Have some self respect and find a man who respects you because this one clearly doesn’t,

If you're fine with him cheating and feel so special then why do you keep posting?

Yeah she is just the other woman. She means nothing. Except he can see it hurting you and still what's her. Except she humiliated you and he keeps shagging her. Except he is risking his relationship with you and still shagging her. So you get to do all the shit work for him and he gets to shag her. She gets all the fun times and non of the shitty parts of being in relationship. Yeah, you must be really special.

Why do you keep name changing and asking the same questions? You have so many problems, it’s exhausting.

Christ

Bloodynhell you need to get a grip first and then come dignity - she's a slut and keeps shagging him and you let him come back! You've literally won nothing - if you watched the programme 3-2-1 as a kid the loser won a dustbin .... you've won the dust bin I'm afraid - bin him ....

All this, for the sake of 1 man in this world. He must be very special to the extent of God-like.

Lucky you, you're the mug he keeps at home to come back to after his shagging escapades. What a prize cockwomble.

Get some self esteem OP and ditch the twat.

God yeah, you are special! Stay with him, you will be doing other women with low self-esteem a favour.

Realistically why would anyone be 'friends' with someone who has made up a lie ? They just wouldn't x

This, again?! Get a life!

Please put your child first. That is all.

Get some self respect OP. He's no prize, you haven't won anything. I was about to ask how you would feel about your daughter dating such a loser but your DM's response tells me everything. She should have taught you not to put up with this shit. She failed.

But the fact that he's not leaving me for her makes me feel special to be honest

You are so special to him that he likes putting his dick in another woman. He loves orgasming in her as well since he keeps coming back to her.

Come on OP, get some self respect. He doesn't care about you. If you love him, would you sleep with other men?

He keeps you around because he likes fucking more than one woman.
If you really love him and want to keep him, then you need to arrange for at least one other woman a week to fuck him because that will make him happy with you. You need to get out there and find more woman for him to fuck. Can you do that?

Op get some help in RL to regain some self respect

Don't continue to be one of this creatures cum dumps

Even if you think yours is the main one.