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Would you believe this woman who's claiming my partner cheated on me?

104 replies

Fran6581 · 23/09/2018 17:25

She contacted me via FB telling me she'd been seeing my partner until she found out about me, she humiliated me by copying my friends & family in the message. He denied the affair but 3 weeks on, he's talking to her again & he claims they're just friends.

OP posts:
GertrudeCB · 24/09/2018 06:31

Oh dear, you againHmm.
He is cheating.
The end.

Fran6581 · 24/09/2018 06:35

Thank you Isabella x

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 24/09/2018 06:53

Are you listening to anyone else, Fran ?

MarthasGinYard · 24/09/2018 06:59

Yes he cheats

Haven't changed my mind since last thread

Redglitter · 24/09/2018 07:04

😂😂😂

Out of all the posts the only one acknowledged is the lone voice supporting her.

OP you could post about this 100 times - which is possible the way you're going - the replies are going to be the Same

YES HES CHEATING ON YOU

Notacluewhatthisis · 24/09/2018 07:05

IsabellaMoltisantixx

The op has posted this over and over.

She knows he is a cheat. Why? Because he was with the friend (who was copied in) when she shagged him. She feels no guilt over that because simply because they 'were meant to be'. She shagged hee good friends boyfriend. She knows he is a cheat and she isn't any better.

He treats her like shit and even worse, she let's him treat her son like shit. And yet she just keeps on posting hoping people will say something different. Or she is bored and it's not true.

Sympathy is not something the op needs.

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 24/09/2018 07:37

I thought I was going mad for a minute thinking I have already read this!
Didn't read as far as bus driver though? Confused?!

SparklyMagpie · 24/09/2018 07:56

Fucking hell 😂😂😂

IsabellaMoltisantixx · 24/09/2018 15:58

Right that makes better sense now but I've never seen or read another post and I usually travel through the relationship topic on MN
Has anyone got links to the others? So I can see?

@Fran6581
I know how you feel in some way I'm n
With a guy who isn't very nice/good I'm sure people can tell me that just by seeing my past posts so tbh I would feel a bit of a hypocrite giving you advice so I'm just gonna send you hugs n hope he treats u better and u work it out

IsabellaMoltisantixx · 24/09/2018 15:59

I searched ops name for other posts and nothing comes up??? How is everyone so sure it's the same serial poster? Just wondering why she would hide her own posts as she's obviously seeking help

PatriciaHolm · 24/09/2018 16:27

But she isn't seeking help. If she was, why repeat the same question over and over and ignore the answers?

Fran6581 · 24/09/2018 17:19

Thank you so much, this is killing me. I'm mostly upset that he's still in contact with her after what she's done to me. This afternoon I read a text she sent to him that said they have to cut communication but my partner replied "lol you can always talk to me". I haven't confronted him yet

OP posts:
Gemini69 · 24/09/2018 17:23

why bother confronting a man who is pursuing someone else in front of you ??

PatriciaHolm · 24/09/2018 17:25

what she's done? Well, it's no more than you did to someone else, and he's the one sticking his dick in anything that moves, repeatedly.

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 24/09/2018 17:30

what she's done to me Hmm she is not the problem here...

Sisgal · 24/09/2018 17:35

You need to bin him, go away and work on your self esteem till you realise that it's not alright to be treated like this. You are not trapped in this situation, you CHOOSE to stay. Leave. You'll be happier in the long run.

FuckItPassMeTheWine · 24/09/2018 17:50

You do realise he is laughing at you don’t you? He is taking the actual piss. Woman up , get your Beyoncé on and kick his ass to the curb . Picture yourself without having all this stress , with maybe a better looking man who is loyal and doesn’t fuck with your head that bloody much resulting in you starting 10 threads on mumsnet. Make those changes today lady!

DDogMum · 24/09/2018 17:53

Is he the Sunderland Shagger?

welshmist · 24/09/2018 17:55

You saw the message he sent her? How?

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 24/09/2018 17:57

answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20180924101837AAVDrG2

Apparently it isn't just on Mumsnet...

Fran6581 · 24/09/2018 18:03

At least now you know my posts are authentic I'm telling the truth!

OP posts:
Iputthescrewinthetuna · 24/09/2018 18:04

Honestly op, u need to get rid of him!

Fran6581 · 24/09/2018 18:05

But the fact that he's not leaving me for her makes me feel special to be honest

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Namechangeforthiscancershit · 24/09/2018 18:07

Did anyone say you weren’t telling the truth? I think all anyone is saying is that you keep posting and ignoring the advice you’ve been given. This man is awful. Yes he is cheating on you, no you shouldn’t be anywhere near him.