This is rude right?

[Savemenow81]

Been ‘seeing’ a guy for a while...he’s not ready for gf/bf status yet. I’m kinda ok with that

We had plans for tonight my DC with their dad and he’s off work. We had a bit of an argument on Sunday I pulled him up on a comment I seen on his SM anyway I assumed all
Was sorted. We were texting yday and I said I was looking forward to our plans tonight and he wb oh I have a family thing on it’s just came up so plans changed to seeing me after. He told me he’d let me know times etc I text earlier did he know times yet he said no....and five hours later still no word.

This is rude yeah?

So you dump him, but his ego has to send you a text that makes him feel he dumped you!

I'd probably probably text him back, "yes you've made that clear already, but don't worry Ive gone past the regret stage. Best of luck and goodbye." But a dignified silence and a block would be much more mature,

"Nothing to regret, you I were never commitment material really. Have fun, see you around"

Keep your dignity

"he will regret this but can’t commit to me at the minute’

Aka he wants to keep his options open. What a dick.

Forgot to add that a dignified silence will be far more confusing / frustrating to him than a response.

Any chance you think he caused argument on purpose on Sunday as he knew he had other plans? I used to go out with someone a long time ago who got up to similar antics. Always blamed me too!

Do not reply! Delete the message and block him

He seriously isn't worth it, he wants to make sure you are floating around in the background

Not one poster thinks this is worth any of your time

Block and don't look back

Day one of full no contact let’s go!!!!!

Oh no. You replied to his text yesterday then?

No no I mean that there’s been no contact from either of us him or me