Walked in with an erection

[mollymoomalone]

So my partner has a 3 year old with his ex, however he has only managed to ejaculate once in 18 months in bed with me. Albeit he is on heavy medication due to health problems he manages to ejaculate every day through self masterbation. Not really interested in sex just in me pleasuring him for hours to no good end 😢

Yesterday his ex visited , he was in the kitchen cooking and she went in there only for a minute and returned to the conservatory. A minute later he walked into the conservatory and put a cup on n the tab,le before immediately returning to the kitchen. I was gobsmacked to notice he had a definite erection sticking straight out in his shorts, I fo,lowed hi. The the kitchen and grabbed the said erection to prove my eyes weren’t deceiving me .

He says I’m being silly and he hadn’t even noticed ...it’s just because he had no pants on only loose football shorts

Not having a penis myself , I want to know is it possible that someone could not know that they had a semi erection when walking form one room to another ?... am I over reacting ?..

He CAN ejaculate - when he's wanking and fantasising about someone else..................he CAN'T won't ejaculate when you are involved.

Pick your dignity up off the floor and walk away.

How ever much of an arse this man is, it doesn't excuse her grabbing his privates.

@SheGotBetteDavisEyes

Who on earth wouldn't have taken that as a joke?!

It wasn't the OP I was referring to. Nothing about that is funny, and I feel for the OP. I take no pleasure in ridiculing others' lives when they are clearly going through a tough time.
Why do people jump on things without first clarifying ...

It wasn't the OP I was referring to

Which was absolutely not clear from your post. In the context of the posts around it, it seemed very much that you were. It happens. It's a thread on a public forum.

Why do people jump on things without first clarifying

Indeed. Something we can all learn from

I would be out the door with this sort of thing. I would not like anyone who thought I was a sexual servant! There is nothing worse for your own self esteem than to be with someone who treats you so selfishly.

there are anatomical sensitivity issues that can mean both men and women can only orgasm with direct stimulation as opposed to PIV sex. Its easier to achieve the specific stimulation required while masturbating.

People really shouldn't assume this means you don't love your partner, or are a rabid porn user.

OPs partner may well be...but he may well not be.

Sorry i had this problem. My ex was exactly the same. Turns out he had a massive porn addiction and was wanking himself silly every day rather than getting into bed with me. Even had counselling and admitted he had a problem. He tried to change but it was all lies.

We endes up splitting up. Hes with a new woman now and hes telling everyone that it was me who had the problem and that now he doesnt need to look at porn because he has someone better to look at!!!

He was a shit and it seems you have one too!! Sorry OP. i wouldn't be happy with this sitiation.

@Needallthehelp

Oh, that is awful. What a tosspot. On the plus side, at least he very much isn't your problem any more!