Partner messaging on Kik

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I can't believe am writing this, last night I caught my OH messaging other women on an app called Kik.

After a blazing row where he went through all the classic motions of denial, blaming me ect ect I finally got to see who he had been messaging. Porn accounts proving tailored videos to his request.

I am devastated we have a 1 year old daughter together so it's not as easy as LTB, There was definitely no physical cheating as all the accounts he was messaging seem professional and based in America although I am under no illusions that more than likely would have been the next step.

I don't know what to do I never thought I would be writing this, I don't know what I need advise, a handhold, a wake up slap? where do we go from here?

Skittlenommer, fair enough if it doesn’t bother you but I think it would bother maybe 80% of women and probably 90% of women over 40 . It’s not the porn angle it’s more the specific ‘type’ , not many women on here are ok with partners webcamming or ordering photos/videos tailored to their own specifics etc

Skittlenommer, fair enough if it doesn’t bother you but I think it would bother maybe 80% of women and probably 90% of women over 40 . It’s not the porn angle it’s more the specific ‘type’ , not many women on here are ok with partners webcamming or ordering photos/videos tailored to their own specifics etc

I get it’s definitely a deal breaker for some people but thought I’d offer a different perspective on it.

There are a lot of chat rooms on kik, not just for direct messaging with people.

Don’t argue with him. Get your savings back and safe first x

Kik is an app used a lot by online daters who don’t want to give their number out, and you give a username instead. Also used a lot by cheaters who don’t want to give their number out. He can not be trusted

It's cheating. Communicating sexually with someone who isn't your partner is cheating, unless prearranged otherwise.

Another who’s husband has been on Kik.
They’re all at it.
It’s basically a secret messaging app where you can also join chat groups.
Also led to a meet up in the case of my DH

90% of the people on kik are men.

Its a hook up app if you are in groups or a safer option for chatting than WhatsApp etc.

Most guys on there will never get to meet a woman, its too competitive