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How to reply to next text

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toobusytothink · 05/08/2018 07:41

Help me come up with great response. Ok so I work in a school and there’s one guy I get on really well with and we are really good friends. Been lots of sexual tension and at end of term we had a couple of drunken snogs. Since breaking up for hols lots and lots of texting every day then met up and ended up in bed although not much happened. Morning was fine we were laughing and carried on texting loads for next couple of days. Then nothing for the past few days. I have sent a couple of random texts since which he has answered but they have been very short conversations.

He will get back in touch because we are meeting up next week as friends. So when he does, say he says sorry for not replying sooner, how should I reply

a) no probs see you ...
b) don’t worry, I know what you’re trying to do
c) and here I was worried you were lying in a ditch somewhere

Or something else??

OP posts:
Churrolicious · 05/08/2018 20:22

Have some fun. Find a friend with benefits, flirt outrageously, date if you want to, have no-strings sex if you want to. Enjoy smutty texts and messaging and that fun feeling of anticipation you get when you're chatting to someone who likes you too.

But not with this guy. He already seems to be messing you around, you're already overthinking it (it's not fun if it's already causing you this much thought / concern - unless I'm reading your posts wrongly you're not enjoying the fun 'oooh is he going to text, how am I going to reply with some kind of flirty response' kind of texting, you're literally a bit worried about it) and frankly it's a bad idea to shit where you eat.

Sorry you've had a shit year. Go have some fun Flowers

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