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Does it count as cheating if it's with a celebrity?

407 replies

falsesmile · 18/06/2018 21:04

My friend (female) kissed one of her childhood hearthrobs at the weekend. We were down in London and ended up in a club he was in. Anyway she got the nerve to talk to him and we ended up sitting with his group and she ended up all over him in the booth. No sex, but a lot of kissing and wandering hands.

She told her husband when we got home!! He doesn't mind (or so he says). The guy was on her list of people she's allowed to sleep with, she had posters of him on her bedroom walls and he's in his late 40's/early 50's now? Anyway her and her husband both agree it doesn't count as cheating if it's someone on the list or someone famous. WTF? I don't know if she'd slept with him if he'd be bothered even? They've been together 20 years, married 15 and neither of them have ever cheated before. Both just carrying on, I'm in shock she told him so freely and he doesn't mind!!

OP posts:
OliviaStabler · 19/06/2018 15:07

@britespark1 What did David do to make him an arse?

I'm sad if he is Sad

JessicaJonesJacket · 19/06/2018 15:36

David B has a history of cheating on his wife ... I second James Marsters being lovely when I met him.

ichifanny · 19/06/2018 15:45

I’m saying Alex James from blur I love him I’d definitely cheat on my husband with him .

Uyulala · 19/06/2018 15:54

I'd be sorely tempted by a celeb. It's once in a lifetime. Especially if I'd been dreaming of it since a kid! Blush

If DH would let me off, I'd let him.

SinkGirl · 19/06/2018 16:18

A few years ago I quit my job working for an international event, and shortly afterwards my lifelong celebrity crush (understatement) was there as a speaker. He is still extremely gorgeous, a notorious womaniser and big sleb these days. Apparently he was behaving pretty disgracefully (not surprising, he is by all accounts a complete cock... but a very handsome one).

There’s no way I could have done anything though, no matter how long I’ve swooned over the bloke. Would have been difficult though! (Not that he would have been interested in me obvs).

Clearly I’ve given this too much thought 😂

britespark1 · 19/06/2018 17:32

@OliviaStabler I met him at a Buffy convention around 12/13 years ago and be quite obviously didn’t want to be there. Miserable and abrupt all day in stark contrast to James Marsters who was there too. I was gutted!

MrsClutterworth · 19/06/2018 17:35

Just because someone sings for a living, acts etc doesn't make it ok to cheat ffs. Just because they get more publicity for what they do? Most people have jobs, that doesn't mean they can cheat or it's ok to cheat with them. Dave in accounting doesn't get publicity for his line of work but because a singer for example does they're fair game? Hahaha boggles the mind the way people think.

quackaday · 19/06/2018 17:39

I’m saying Alex James from blur

Me too. And phwoar, I would as well. Absolutely fancy the pants off him 😍

nottinghillgrey · 19/06/2018 17:40

So your friends met a guy in a club, that night; and was all over him, wandering hands and kissing?

Really?

That's disgusting. Does she have no self respect Hmm

OliviaStabler · 19/06/2018 18:56

@britespark1 How sad Sad You must have been disappointed.

I loved him in Bones.

A friend of mine met James and loved him. She said he was friendly and approachable.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 19/06/2018 19:09

Perhaps your friend will have a moment of fame now? A well known married celeb in a London nightclub with his hands up another woman's skirt would have attracted some attention. I'm sure a few people took pics on their phone to upload. Shock

In the spirit of the thread I'm going with a member of Bros, the better looking one.

ShirleyPhallus · 19/06/2018 19:21

So your friends met a guy in a club, that night; and was all over him, wandering hands and kissing?

Really?

That's disgusting. Does she have no self respect

Why do women always get the sole blame for this? Isn’t he to be questioned for having “no self respect”?

britespark1 · 19/06/2018 19:22

@OliviaStabler that was the day my allegiances switched to Team Spike Wink I have met Marsters quite a few times now and have never seen him be anything but friendly and approachable.

daftyburd · 19/06/2018 19:23

I once met Robbie Williams while out with the dog. I live near a fancy hotel. He didn’t give me a second look but his hands were all over my dog and there was definite heavy petting. Even that made our local newspaper.

MiddleClassProblem · 19/06/2018 19:27

Maybe they see it as a case of she was “in love” with him first? No idea.

I know this one wasn’t sex but the thought of getting my kit off in front of a childhood crush now is... no... Just no...

elQuintoConyo · 19/06/2018 19:42

iLostblabla90s which Bros would that be? They're twins Grin

Matt headlines a Las Vegas place crooning. Luke does acting, was in a Hellboy film. Think he might be less hirsuit.

Both gorgeous, still

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 19/06/2018 19:52

Oh sorry elblablaConyo are they identical twins? I don't want to upset a Bros fan here Grin I'll get my coat.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 19/06/2018 19:57

Dafty did your dog have Robbie Williams on his list? Can't believe it made the papers! I hope they blurred out your poor dog's face Grin

LilQueenie · 19/06/2018 20:15

johnny depp?

OliviaStabler · 19/06/2018 20:21

@britespark1 One year I managed to buy a Spike calendar. Lovely!

nottinghillgrey · 19/06/2018 20:33

Why do women always get the sole blame for this? Isn’t he to be questioned for having “no self respect”?

I wasn't solely blaming anyone. I was asking the OP about her friend because that's who she wrote about. Obviously it applies to the other party as well.

halfwitpicker · 19/06/2018 20:37

Johnny depp has lost loads of weight

MynameisMaximus · 19/06/2018 20:38

I reckon it's Simon Le Bon

somuchunanswered · 19/06/2018 20:42

Johnny isn’t married anymore

Trills · 19/06/2018 20:43

@Dagnabit Very well done

I opened this thread in order to search for the word "laminated" and it seems you said it first :o

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