The OPs sister is not unique in deliberately getting pregnant. She isn't the first and won't be the last woman to do it.
No shit, Sherlock. I imagine most pregnancies are wanted or 'deliberate'. I reckon about 95% of MN pregnancies were planned. Why do you say this like it's a bad thing?
I've seen MN members confess they've done it too....some within marriage and some outside of marriage
god, don't these bitches know accidental pregnancies are the way to go?
when all you want is sex (along with other aspects of the relationship) ....18 years (minimum) of child support is a high price to pay.
I'd seriously question the intelligence and also the moral fibre of someone who thought like this. With sex ALWAYS comes a risk of pregnancy, unless the woman has had a hysterectomy. See my previous point about abstinence. Also, maybe your friend could actually get to know a woman and find out if she's compatible with him and his views/ideals on parenthood, or discovering she'd make a good mother to his offspring should she get pregnant, before having sex with her. Again, pass the smelling salts, because I know it's a horrifying thought of a man getting to know someone before sticking his dick in her, bet there you go
so if a man does not wish to be a father at that point in time...then trusting a woman who says she's on the pill or any other form of contraception clearly isn't enough. You're effectively handing her the decision on whether you become a father or not.
Look, in this country it's perfectly well known that if a woman gets pregnant she decides the outcome of the pregnancy and the man has no say. So with that in mind men who don't want babies have one of three options -
- Abstinence
- Taking responsibility for heir own contraception whilst accepting there's a very small chance a pregnancy may still happen
- Find a partner who shares the same views on pregnancy and what you'd do about it, and be responsible with her.
It's not hard FFS
It's best to wear a condom and ditch the contents permanently. Flushing them is easy enough
Why is this best? Seriously, no one wants your mate's spunk
Those balance of probabilities aren't that rare.
Evidence? Like a PP said - let's assume all men are rapists because a lot of them do rape. Far more than women who 'steal sperm'. So surely women should assume all men are going to rape them, no?
but imagine if a man told you he was wearing a condom...then slipped it off when you weren't looking... There'd be pps shouting this was rape..because that's not the terms on which consent was given.
Well yes I would personally call that rape if a man slipped a condom off. However, Not taking the contraceptive pill after sex occurs does not involve violating another person's body. Jesus what a misogynistic comparison, kudos for minimising rape 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼