Help please

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Help. Can't form sentences so please bear with.

Engaged to bf, wedding booked, two young kids (1 a baby), "perfect" relationship. bf been meeting men for wank and suck from adult websites - replying to ads and posting them - in their cars, houses etc. after work. Found out a few days ago. Lots of lies, thought I had the truth, was just getting to okay, not found out anything new really just... more. He's come home from work - obviously he's scared. He's outside the house, just waiting, we're messaging. Don't know what to do now. He met another guy last week whilst away with work. They met again the next night and went to a prostitute to wee on her and wank on her tits. I knew this a few days ago. Anyway, that's the full story. Ish.

What do I do now? I mean RIGHT NOW. He's outside. I'm inside with the kids.

There is deffo a gay element in there. A straight man would no way masturbate in the presence of another man.
I'm sorry you're going through this.

Op you are strong and brave. Yes get angry. The sexuality of the lies is irrelevant imo. Gay straight kinky watesports whatever.

The fact is he's a liar and has put your health and your life at risk. Don't lose sight of that and good luck x

It's all a bit confusing tbh! You say he's not into men but he's meeting men for a wank and a suck which would indicate he's not entirely straight. Added to that he's having taboo sexual encounters with prostitutes
Listen I'm sure he's very upset and distressed you've found out his sordid secret and is probably panicking and terrified that you'll tell all his friends and his parents etc and he'll either be disgraced or a laughing stock. I feel sorry for him in a way as he's hiding something which eats you away
However at the same time he's tried to create a veneer of respectability by having a relationship and kids with you and that's really deplorable of him as he's now dragged you and your kids into his mess.

Don't marry him. He's not suddenly going to stop doing this - you can't turn off what gives you kicks -he'll just go further underground with it and tbh how could you ever trust him
Presumably you're still young don't waste your life on his lies and facade

There absolutely no way he was
Meeting up to wank with someone I really hope you haven't believed that like who the fuck does that really !!!

Thank god you found this out before you married the creep. Urgh. Sorry you are going through this horrible trauma, but you really have dodged a bullet OP.