uh-huh toasted. you're the oracle on this sort of thing then are you?
so go on, do reveal to us how come these men end up much more unhappy and having lost so much for their roving ways?
clearly you're not particularly literate so perhaps you haven't read anything about or even experienced depression or (eek the dreaded words) a mid-life crisis.
if you even have an OH, i hope to god s/he never experiences the kind of crisis that leads them to behave so callously and distructively. because if they do, then you'll be on the end of that behaviour.
don't you think that the women here, who are giving such fantastic mutual support and advice, haven't looked in the mirror and asked themselves "where did i go wrong"?
do you have any idea how hard it is to come back from that sort of shit-kicking. the shit-kicking we give ourselves.
when in actual fact, nobody does anything to result in a partner straying. the person comitting adultery does that all for themselves.
it's their choice and if they try to blame their partner for their behaviour then not only are they lying and deceiving self-gratifying shits they are also spineless and cowardly.
got a problem in your relationship then talk to your parnter about it. don't rush off and drop your pants for the first slag (can't imagine who that might be!) who flutters her eyelashes at him.
and you might come back and tell me i don't have the right to comment on you because i don't know you.
well you don't fucking know me or the other women who post here.
stay the fuck out of this thread and keep your trashy opinions to yourself.