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2 year anniversary today and I'm going to end it

148 replies

Detanglingmyhead · 25/03/2018 07:55

Booked a luxury hotel, afternoon tea and spa (all paid for by me as usual). His phone buzzes at 1am last night. Knew it would be his ex. It was. She will not back off at all. They were only together for 7 months in 2014 but she's obsessed. Checked his phone. What would you think if you read these? I'm fuming.

2 year anniversary today and I'm going to end it
2 year anniversary today and I'm going to end it
2 year anniversary today and I'm going to end it
OP posts:
Desmondo2016 · 25/03/2018 13:37

Well done. You sound awesome.

Now you need to block them both and move on. You've said your bit and that's enough.

Well done You!

Hernameisdeborah · 25/03/2018 13:37

Wow. At least now you can leave them both to it and banish them both from your lives. Onwards and upwards!

rascallyrascal · 25/03/2018 13:40

👏🏻 well done OP!!!

MachineBee · 25/03/2018 13:58

Well done OP. Enjoy your spa and time with your DSis

MarthasGinYard · 25/03/2018 14:00

Ooo enjoy your spa with ds

Sounds perfect

So glad you've ditched this tosser

They both sound pretty pathetic.

Pitch your sights higher next time OpWink

Tailfeather · 25/03/2018 14:03

Well done. You're definitely done the right thing. Have a lovely time with your sister. X

TempusFugitive · 25/03/2018 14:04

He is playing u both. She thinks u have stockholm syndrome and u think she is needy.

He is a player

MarthasGinYard · 25/03/2018 14:08

Think OW needs to read up on 'Stockholm syndrome'

anxiousworld · 25/03/2018 14:10

Damn. It seems they’re suited for each other and you’re well rid.

char187 · 25/03/2018 14:22

Well done op. Have the best time at the spa with your sister. Hope you are ok x

bigknickersbigknockers · 25/03/2018 14:23

he sounds a waste of space.... enjoy your spa day with your sister and look forward to a happy future x

Ryder63 · 25/03/2018 14:30

Blimey! well done OP. Have a fab time with your sister - and DO NOT take him back or even give him any more headspace. History! Grin

JessieMcJessie · 25/03/2018 14:33

Well done. Don’t look back. He is not worth a second more of your time and energy.

TeisanLap · 25/03/2018 14:49

He did not mention how I feel once. It was all how she felt and how I shouldn't send a message to a person who has depression

With him as a constant in her life she perhaps needs to look at the source of her depression.

SparklyMagpie · 25/03/2018 15:22

Well there it all is just in your last updates

Had she replied once you'd ended things with him? As I'm wondering she was probably thinking she'd won and was feeling confident...just seems a coincidence when she replied

Regardless, you've dropped two dead weights

Hope you and DS enjoy your spa day and evening and no doubt that dick will message back soon crawling back! Make sure you ignore, ignore, ignore

Take care

Gemini69 · 25/03/2018 15:37

So... She's paying for her ex to spend time round her place.. and he's doing it.. and taking the money.. how sad hahahahahaaaaaaaa

well shot.. well done Lady Flowers

branstonbaby · 25/03/2018 18:08

Well done!!!

Detanglingmyhead · 25/03/2018 18:10

Aaaaand the spa and fizz is working Smile thanks all. I'm well rid and my sister and I are hashing through all the shit that went on over the last two years. Feel like today has kind of been a watershed moment where I've taken a stand for the first time for my own wellbeing instead of putting myself last.

2 year anniversary today and I'm going to end it
OP posts:
Asiaticlily · 25/03/2018 18:54

That pic has really made me crave a spa day!

Well done OP. May today be a fresh start for you!

Smile
GeekyWombat · 25/03/2018 19:45

Ok, I am a little bit jealous. You definitely end relationships in style! :)

Congratulations on ditching the excess baggage. Here's to the next phase.

Flowers
Inertia · 25/03/2018 19:46

Glad to hear your day has improved- I bet the spa day is much more fun with your sister, and your life will definitely improve with Ex out of it. Well done - you deserve better than the headfuckery generated by your ex and his ego.

Tinkerbec · 25/03/2018 21:36

Well done and enjoy and relax

Tomorrow remember what you have discussed with your sister and don’t look back.

Girlfrommars77 · 25/03/2018 22:47

Oh well done OP! Spa looks amazing and you and your sis have a well deserved treat. Wins Flowers

Startoftheyear2018 · 25/03/2018 22:49

Onwards and upwards x

altiara · 25/03/2018 23:33

Wow!! This is the only time I’ve ever seen the spa day advice being taken! Shock
And as a side note, excellent work on binning the twatbadger.
You rock! Grin