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Is he just being friendly?

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Sudafed73 · 09/02/2018 20:46

This is a silly one and I feel a bit silly posting but I don't want to talk to anyone in RL.

There's a man at work that I like but I don't know if he's just being friendly. If anyone else was telling me the goings on, I'd say he definitely liked them but seems to have trouble for myself.

We are both quite shy around each other. Over the last week we've started talking via messages at home and spoke back and forth over 4 days and a couple of hours tonight. Tonight I mentioned I had to write a speech and had no idea where to start...an hour later he'd come back to me with an email of a doc he'd written for me to use and put effort into it.

If someone said to me they'd spent that long talking to someone from work (not just about work, what we were doing that day/interests etc) and put effort into writing something for them at home, I'd be inclined to say they liked each other.

In person, we try to talk but I feel shy around him and he seems nervous ish and paces when talking to me in front of people

Help MNers lol

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Sudafed73 · 16/02/2018 21:13

Haha absolutely! Also, hopefully on MN do you write a post saying how vulnerable /say etc you are and get called a cow, controlling and a bully...!

I really appreciated your posts, SV, thank you x

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Sudafed73 · 16/02/2018 21:14

Sad not say

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StripeyDeckchair · 16/02/2018 23:34

Sell the house.

You get all your money back.
You buy a smaller property and start your business

"D"P can just fuck off and sort himself out.

The moral of the story is always draw up a watertight legal agreement where money and/or property are concerned. I'm astonished at how few cohabitees start off with a legal agreement; its basic self preservation.

Sudafed73 · 17/02/2018 05:31

Don't think you're on the right thread lol

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ScreamingValenta · 17/02/2018 07:18

Ha ha! I know you were disappointed, but selling your house would be a bit extreme Grin.

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