DH has decided that now would be the good time to look for another job and move. Because you know, I’m getting a bit bored with what I’m doing now. Job would be far enough that it wouldn’t be commutable of course....
I’m so angry at him.
Not because of the idea of moving. I’ve been telling Id love to move for years (think about 15 years). He has been saying he hates the place we are living for about the same amount of time.
But, no. It was always impossible. It was the financial crisis (can’t risk to loose my redundancy money if things go bad), his hobbies (no way I won’t be able to do x and y) and Just generally refusing to look further than 15 miles away from he has always lived.
And now he wants to move .... just when my business is finally doing well (I would have to start from scratch again), when we have found a school that works for the dcs and when both dcs are entering the time when they will have exams after exams (between them, they will have one exam each year for the next 4 years - Dc1 GCSE next year, then dc2, the Dc1 Alevel And dc2 Alevel) so really the last time when you want them to move to a new school.
I’m pissed off. He has form to find ‘just the right job’ to suit him when he wants so I am in no doubt that his change of heart is linked with something he really wants to do (or wants to avoid)
Relationship isn’t going well atm and it feels like it’s a perfect way to reign me in.
And all the objections that he used before seemed to have disappeared, even though they are still probably even more valid now than they were before.
Just needed to vent. I need to have a chat with him about it but feel too pissed off just now to be able to have a rational conversation.