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BF shared a picture of him and his ex. Weird or normal?

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NonplussedwithFB · 28/11/2017 15:33

DP and I have been very dodgy lately for various reasons and I'm hormonal so I don't really trust my judgement. It's about shitty FB too so look away now if you hate it.

This morning he has shared a post from that timehop thing. The post is a picture of him and his long term ex (no kids, not married but together over a decade) from 8 years ago. They broke up 6 years ago.

We've been together 2. His family don't seem to like me very much and his mum still has pictures up of his ex, so I'm very sensitive. Do you think it's weird that he's shared it? He's friends with her on there so she will have seen it. As will all his family. As yet nobody has liked it. WIBU to put a 'love' on it Hmm sarcastically!

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NonplussedwithFB · 02/12/2017 21:13

I did gemini with kind of a repayment plan.

I don't understand why he feels terrible and depressed. He posted that picture knowing it would place a bomb under our relationship.

She was sat in his house when we came home from our first proper date together (I think she was probably waiting for him to get in as she knew he'd be drunk). Their inability to fully cut the strings has ruined my relationship with him. It never stood a chance really. This is what he has chosen and wanted. Now he feels sorry for himself? I keep thinking this through. I really shouldn't but I can't help it.

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Gemini69 · 02/12/2017 21:24

he'd a Dick... and she relishes his inability to move on.. I'd be very interested in knowing how her DH/DP feels about Her clinging on in there too....... it's all very sad really....

I agree with all the others.... your way better than this... and this crap Lady Flowers

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NonplussedwithFB · 02/12/2017 21:39

She doesn't have a DP. And hasn't had anything of any length since.

They both revel in the lack of moving in I think. I'm so pissed off they put me (unknowingly) in the middle of their stupid game, given that it has been years.

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NonplussedwithFB · 02/12/2017 21:40

*lack of moving on

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Gemini69 · 02/12/2017 21:56

AAAhhhhhhhh..... now THAT is interesting ... Hmm

fuck em.... keep walking Flowers

NoCanoe · 02/12/2017 23:25

She was there after your first date ???
Dear Lord!!
Please.....how did that go down??? Might give some insight as to why she so ingrained in his life?

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NonplussedwithFB · 02/12/2017 23:32

I didn't have a clue who the fuck she was at the time! He said she was a 'friend'.

I've sent him this;

' I don't get why you feel terrible and miserable. You shared that post for a reason. You lost me for her. That's what you wanted so I don't understand why you feel bad. Anyway, put the money in my account and leave me alone.'

I need him out of my life for good.

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