Please help me rationalise this

[Bananahannahblah]

Ok. We live in as very small house. Dh daughter came here 2 weeks ago as split up with bf. I'm fkin fuming. The house is so small I have no privacy. Dh can't see what the problem is. She is here every evening I just want to run away. I haven't been consulted but dh thinks there are no alternatives. Am I right to be pissed off??

She's his daughter, just as much as the 5 year old. Nothing to discuss really. She's homeless, and he'd be a giant turd if he didn't take her in.

If my dd asked to move back home so would say Yes and them tell partner.Its one of those decisions where a parent has to say Yes, hoping their partner knows how much it means to them.

Look at the positives..you get on and she could be a baby sitter.

Look for solutions and work with your partner.Supporting him now is what you would hope he would do for you.