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DH has died and Squirrels broke the last thread without a link to this one! (Juan)

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Chasingsquirrels · 26/09/2017 20:01

Oh dear - I just posted the 1000 thread. Hope we all find this one.

Selena hugs back.
I just miss him, not particular things as such, just the essence of John.
And if I think about that I just ache for him and tears just leak from my eyes.
So, mostly, I don't think about it I just carry on.

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Chasingsquirrels · 28/10/2017 21:24

Fabby helmet book!
Glad your friend cheered you up horse.
Hope ds is less grumpy for Legoland tomorrow cake.

Les Miserables was excellent, and then we went out for dinner afterwards.
A good day.

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Willow2017 · 28/10/2017 22:35

First pumpkin done!
Spent last 2 hours doing it am knackered!
Still got a ton of dishes to do, went straight on it from tea.

DS2 did one too. Only 2 more to do as 1 was rotten!
Will it pass muster? Its Carol from TWD.
Will get photo of DS2's later.

Squirrels sounds like a fab night.
Cake put up piccies of your pumpkins please.
Horse oooh cake and chocolate how nice of her, pass it around please Smile I have toblerone will swap some Grin

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bookbook · 28/10/2017 22:56

Evening all
I only googled pics of helmet, and found paper fasteners - all praise to my DH !
Chasing - I have never seen Les Mis - ( I have read the original ! )I do know a couple of the songs . Good to hear that it was a nice day for you
Cake - good luck for tomorrow , hope its a good day. The hour back is really rubbish when you are already waking up far too early .
Horse - ooh chocolate and cake - thats a good visitor! I watched SCD too , while wrestling with some awkward knitting ...
Willow - that is astonishing - just wow . I will put one of my winter squashes on the doorstep, but no way am I carving it Grin .
good night all , sleep well
Thoughts and Prayers

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 29/10/2017 07:07

Good morning all of you! Well I never... DS slept 11 1/2 hours of which 7 1/2 was in his own bed. We got up at the new time of 5:30, so while it feels early, I know it's not really.

My pumpkin will look nothing like that Willow you seem very talented! It will be a few triangles and a mouth Wink

Squirrel I'm glad you had a good evening.

Horse that is a good friend indeed! Hope you're starting to feel a bit more human this week. How long are you off work for?

book finding the instructions/picture to work from was half the job done. Have a good day.

Check in tonight. No word from Juan but she did say she was going away for some of half term.

Willow2017 · 29/10/2017 09:00

Morning all
Cake i just like pumpkins whatever is carved into them😀 I like all off them if somone took the trouble to do one. That was a good sleep for him yeah😀

Need to get a move on working at 12.

bookbook · 29/10/2017 09:08

Morning all
it feels later ....Grin
Cake - wow , great sleep - lets hope you can get this hard wired in !
Send Juan love if you do hear from her ( I know you will anyway!)
Willow - hope the day is not too frantic.
I'm sat dithering - may just go early and do an hour at the allotment.
DD2 and her partner coming to ours for early lunch, then off to DGS birthday bash. DD2 bringing the cake carried very carefully!.
Have a lovely day all

Willow2017 · 29/10/2017 09:19

book
Thanks you are very kind. If i can do that pumpkin anyone can go on have a go😀

Chasingsquirrels · 29/10/2017 11:51

I love those type of pumpkin carvings willow, ours are of the jagged eye, nose & mouth hole variety.

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TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 29/10/2017 18:42

I will see if I can upload later on the PC - my one turned out OK.

We have had a good and busy day. Lego was pants with lots of rides shut, but we found a few things to do. Thankfully we haven't paid specifically, but DH said he was going to write a complaint regardless. Did the pumpkins, got the shopping in and packed away and baked banana loaf and made chic Krispies squares!

Just going to get DS off to sleep now. Fingers crossed indeed!

Hope the party was good book and willow I hope your shift wasn't too back breaking.

X

Willow2017 · 29/10/2017 22:19

Cake not too bad, busy spells, neck complaining but few minutes here and there to breath. Smile Managed not to make a mess when on the tills Grin Getting pushed out my comfort zone by one of the staff I know which is a good thing But 8 hrs is a long time when you arent used to physical work for that long!

Book hope the party went well and you got lots of cake Wink

Squirrels photo please Smile

Got my shift changed so am off on Tuesday yeah Smile

HeadlessHorsemad · 29/10/2017 22:24

Glad you're off Tuesday Willow Halloween Smile

Quiet day here; went for a short dawdle and then instructed DH on how to cook a chicken!! Grin

I have had a real thirst on today, not sure what that's all about. Confused Could sink a beer but have been good and just had water.

Chasingsquirrels · 29/10/2017 22:27

Good you've swapped shifts willow.
We don't actually have carved pumpkins this year - although they have got one each as my dad grew some - I just meant in general. If they carve them I'll post...

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bookbook · 29/10/2017 22:41

Evening all
had a great day, am caked out :) And I had a small tub of gummi bear ice cream Grin . (Never had a gummi bear before.)
Cake - thats rubbish - I wonder if they were winding down after half term, but that makes no sense as lots around here are doing last of the year trips out. Sounds as if you had a good day nevertheless.
Willow - good you can now full on enjoy halloween , have you time to carve the other pumpkins though?
Horse - how long are you supposed to be recuperating? Long enough to train up DH as full time chef?
Well, DH settling down to watch F1 - me not so sure were I am time wise. I stayed up late last night , so assume I need to go early tonight to get my body in gear . Some chance ...
Sleep well all
Thoughts and Prayers

Willow2017 · 29/10/2017 23:21

Book
Ha ha that remains to be seen! Have an hour tomorrow morning and then tomorrow pm and all day tuesday while putting out decorations! MIght just make it! Might have to do one easy one to fit it in.

Need to go to bed I am flagging, done the basics of ironing for school clothes but starting to yawn, not like me at all. Monday morning looming large (I hate school mornings!) plus I havent done packed lunches so they will have to wait until tomorrow morning.

Night Night.

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 30/10/2017 05:50

Hi all. All smugness wiped off my face - 4:45 this morning which is not just early but also a short night for him (and me).

Glad you survived Willow

book that sounds like an interesting ice cream. glad party went well

horse well done on training DH up. Just starting to train DD in cooking now.

Squirrels back to normal for work this week?

Check back later yawn

Chasingsquirrels · 30/10/2017 07:34

Never even heard of gummi bear ice cream!

That's early cake - yawn. Hope the day improves.

Yes, back to normal work week, just about to wake ds1 who came home exhausted yesterday after a scout camp over the weekend - he's applied for the 2016 world scout jamboree and it was the county selection camp.

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Willow2017 · 30/10/2017 07:58

Gosh thats early Cake poor you.

Mondays are never good mornings Squirrels fongers crossed for ds.

Absolutely freezing rhis morning. Heating on as soon as i got up.
Need to get some shopping in at some point need more hours in the day.

bookbook · 30/10/2017 09:06

Morning all
I think the clocks going back just messes up everyone .
Putting the best spin on it - Cake it was really 5.45 , but even that was too early.
Cold and bright here this morning, but having trouble getting going - too much sugar/calories yesterday I think.
The ice cream was bright fluorescent pink, with tiny gummi bears in it. Not something I will seek out again!
Its half term week here , so today I'm house working , and a pop up to the allotment later, when the soil has warmed a bit.

We are having DGS for the day tomorrow , so I need to check I have all the ingredients for the christmas pudding - everyone is here tomorrow, so we will be mixing it , so may need a trip to the shops .
Have a good day all

Willow2017 · 30/10/2017 10:34

It worked am so chuffed😀😀😀

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TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 30/10/2017 13:23

I know book and his tummy was growling, so I couldn't be mad, but because he'd gone to sleep at 8:30PM in old money, it was a short night indeed. Teacher had to peel him off me, but by the time they went in, he was chatting to her with a smile on his face.

One small on holiday so the other wanted to see the soldiers. We went into town, had a hot choc to warm up - freezing!!! and then song time and then the soldiers, park and soldiers again Grin he loves them!

Now a bit of a lull before school run and tea and fire fighting arguing children!

Hope you're all OK and squirrel that DS is OK after the weekend. Willow that looks great!

HeadlessHorsemad · 30/10/2017 13:24

Looks great Willow, we used to do them when the DSs were small, always good fun Halloween Smile

Christmas pudding mixing sounds lovely book, remember doing that when I was little.

Cake, I hope you have coffee on IV!! Grin that is a REALLY early start Shock Will he not snuggle in bed next to you? When he's about 14 you'll have to haul him out of bed! Wink

I took ages to get to sleep last night then DH woke me by coming into the bedroom to get his work things. Been awake since 6am.

I am off for 3-4 weeks, depending on how I heal. Can't drive either just yet so feel a bit useless.

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 30/10/2017 13:28

my attempt

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HeadlessHorsemad · 30/10/2017 13:41

Fiendishly good Cake Halloween Grin

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 30/10/2017 14:17

I don't do coffee Horse Hmm [shocked] so I've had hot chocolate and about to go get some fat coke!

Thanks for the compliment - very amateurish as it's not something we do back home. Did my first pumpkin probably in 2009 when DD was little but interested.

Oh that is pants, hope you get better sleep tonight and me Yes, I did say I will haul him out of bed at 5am when he's a teenager. He was genuinely hungry... could hear his tummy grumbling!

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 30/10/2017 14:18

even emoji fail! Shock

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